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Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-26-2009, 12:25 PM
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Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-24-2009, 02:07 PM
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Views: 242
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Typically a committed relationship, such as a...

Typically a committed relationship, such as a marriage, has a distinct advantage in that you have a captive audience. In your situation, you’re at a distinct disadvantage because your friend has the...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-24-2009, 01:29 PM
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Views: 140
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P.S.

If ever you get a chance, I would love for you to post your feedback as a reader review on Amazon.com. Your story represents the message I'm trying to get out there.

Thank you,
Dr. Joe
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-24-2009, 01:27 PM
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Views: 140
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I want to thank you for your feedback and...

I want to thank you for your feedback and congratulate you on your ongoing success. Please keep us posted as you continue to reclaim your life.

Yours,
Dr. Joe
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-24-2009, 01:24 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 112
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I'm afraid I can't help you there. I read The...

I'm afraid I can't help you there. I read The Road Less Traveled many years ago and, other than throughly enjoying it, wouldn't do it justice by trying to recollect its essence. As for The Power...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-23-2009, 02:26 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 132
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The answer is relatively simple, but I can see...

The answer is relatively simple, but I can see why you're confused. The Power of Self-Coaching isn't about learning not to think. Specifically, it's learning to let go of insecurity-driven...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-23-2009, 02:19 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 169
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I have no plans at the moment of translating my...

I have no plans at the moment of translating my site to Chinese, however are you aware that my Self-Coaching book is now published in Chinese (Chongquing Press)?

Regarding your question,...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-23-2009, 01:49 PM
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Views: 108
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Let me begin by saying that often, with...

Let me begin by saying that often, with significant anxiety or depressive symptoms, medication can be a therapy facilitator. Medication, by calming things down, allows you to gain not only...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-17-2009, 02:01 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 144
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Let me start out with one word: HABIT. As you...

Let me start out with one word: HABIT. As you know from reading my Self-Coaching books, I treat anxiety and depression as habits. Habits that we either feed or starve. And like any habit, we either...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-14-2009, 02:04 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 131
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Before responding, please explain further about...

Before responding, please explain further about the "picture thoughts" that you have. Are these mental pictures that flash into your mind or are you actually "seeing" these images?
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-11-2009, 11:59 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 180
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First, let me offer a Self-Coaching...

First, let me offer a Self-Coaching rule-of-thumb. No one can MAKE you feel anything. You either allow them to affect you or you don’t. It’s ultimately up to you. You need to fully embrace this...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-09-2009, 03:01 PM
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Views: 250
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I’ve always been fond of telling my kids, “When I...

I’ve always been fond of telling my kids, “When I was young, I thought I knew all the answers. Now I’m older and I realize I don’t even know the questions.” I concur that you are aware of the details...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-01-2009, 01:08 PM
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Views: 286
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From a feeling standpoint I can understand why...

From a feeling standpoint I can understand why you feel you’re back to square one. This isn’t true. Once you learn something, you don’t “unlearn” it. Although you’re probably right that this is all...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 08-01-2009, 12:49 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 144
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This is a very important question. As it is with...

This is a very important question. As it is with life itself, not everything is possible. What’s important is to become truly catalytic, i.e., removing your own insecurity driven, defensive behavior...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-25-2009, 02:12 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 147
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Being an adult doesnít start at twenty-three,...

Being an adult doesnít start at twenty-three, itís truly a process of exploration, maturation, and experience. From your note it appears that your ďhesitationsĒ have more to do with some insecurity....
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-20-2009, 12:40 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 178
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<O:p</O:p It's impossible to know what's really...

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It's impossible to know what's really going on with your wife. She seems confused and defensive about wanting to explore, engage, or otherwise investigate what's going on. I do feel it's...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-19-2009, 02:27 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 178
Posted By Dr. Joe
Please let me know why your wife feels she can't...

Please let me know why your wife feels she can't respect you.
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-15-2009, 01:51 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 166
Posted By Dr. Joe
Altough I am not familiar with MBSR techniques,...

Altough I am not familiar with MBSR techniques, from what you write it sounds very compatible with Self-Coaching. From a Self-Coaching perspective one begins to find habituated patterns (habits) of...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-14-2009, 03:07 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 142
Posted By Dr. Joe
I grew up with anxiety and it's the reason I...

I grew up with anxiety and it's the reason I entered psychology. In my Self-Coaching books I talk about my early years of anxiety and insecurity. Self-Coaching has become my way of eliminating...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-14-2009, 03:02 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 122
Posted By Dr. Joe
At the risk of sounding like a commercial, I...

At the risk of sounding like a commercial, I would like to recommend my new book, Reconnecting: A Self-Coaching Solution to Revive Your Love Life--you'll find a more extensive discussion of this...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-12-2009, 12:49 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 167
Posted By Dr. Joe
Habits of insecurity are tenacious, and look for...

Habits of insecurity are tenacious, and look for opportunities to reinsert themselves into your life. When you begin reading my books youíll learn more about letting-go, turning away, and learning...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-05-2009, 02:41 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 176
Posted By Dr. Joe
The most important thing to realize is that your...

The most important thing to realize is that your over-sensitivity is a habit of insecurity and control, i.e., insecurity was the impetus and controlling life was your unconscious strategy for warding...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-04-2009, 01:06 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 198
Posted By Dr. Joe
Well, let me begin by saying that I donít think I...

Well, let me begin by saying that I donít think I ever said that if you stop one habit of destructive thinking another will pop up. Perhaps I said something to the effect that this can or might...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-02-2009, 01:29 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 146
Posted By Dr. Joe
I assume you're talking about trusting a partner...

I assume you're talking about trusting a partner in a relationship. Trust in a relationship is the cornerstone of true and lasting love. I do recommend my new book, Reconnecting: A Self-Coaching...
Forum: Ask Dr. Joe 07-01-2009, 12:17 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 157
Posted By Dr. Joe
The more insecure a person is, the more likely...

The more insecure a person is, the more likely the ego becomes dependent on what others say as a feeble attempt to feel more secure. This person typically become compulsive about pleasing others--a...
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