Go Back   Forums > Self-Coaching Forums > Ask Dr. Joe

Notices

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 07-14-2014, 06:19 PM
justclaire justclaire is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 143
Default oops

Am defo improving.....learning all i need is within ie trust , hope etc. However i do have a tendency to pursue things....enlightenment, meditation, hynosis. C
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 07-15-2014, 02:25 AM
Dr. Joe Dr. Joe is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 2,015
Default

Just be sure your pursuits are "want-tos" and not "have-tos" :-)
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 07-15-2014, 12:15 PM
justclaire justclaire is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 143
Default

The power of now is very interesting. My whole life ive been my thoughts(which is why suicidal ones were so scarey). To learn you are not thoughts and that you can actually accept yourself is amazing. Being a Christian has sometimes made this difficult for me but i have a choice and as of today i choose to accept myself and treat myself with compassion and love.:-)
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 07-16-2014, 12:52 PM
Dr. Joe Dr. Joe is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 2,015
Default

Is you sustain this attitude, you will be on the path of liberation from struggle. No ifs, ands or buts!
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 07-16-2014, 01:56 PM
justclaire justclaire is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 143
Default

I'll keep trying. Some days i forget where i am and feel i 'should' be doing.
I think i expected a much quicker result but am realising it takes time and a huge dollop of self love.
Am slowly taking down all the written prompts around me too
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 07-18-2014, 07:02 PM
justclaire justclaire is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 143
Default

Dr joe....i am currently reading'the power of now' and various articles on relationship insecurities. I dont live with my partnet but whenever i try to share stuff with him i think he just wishes i could be'normal'. He hadnt left me in 7 years and a distance of 600 miles......should i ditch the searching and just be? I use meditation everyday.
Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On

Forum Jump


All times are GMT. The time now is 08:44 PM.


Managed by WebTronix